But Dylan is still doing well and I don't have any new issues to report this week, just some more information about the ones I mentioned last week.
Except - Dylan open half of his left eye! Daddy saw it first. This was very exciting...our first little milestone : ) Mike wants to call him Left Eye now, but I told him that name is already taken.
Mike and I had about a one hour conversation/lesson with our favorite doctor yesterday. I almost felt like I should pay him afterwards. He went from Dylan's head down to his bowels and talked about each system and how Dylan is doing. I guess I'll just do the same for you.
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Brain: It's great news that Dylan's bleed did not progress since the first week is when most bleeding occurs. The location of his bleed is also good. Rather than bleeding into tissue and potentially killing cells, he bled into an empty space in the middle. It will take a long time for the bleed to be broken up and reabsorbed, but the odds of damage are pretty low.
Heart: Dylan still has the PDA (open valve) in his heart, but it doesn't seem to be causing major issues. If his heart was really stressed, it would be large. His is the right size. His heart rate is also extremely stable. He still may need surgery to close the valve, but the more time that passes, the smaller of an issue it will be because his heart will keep growing, but the valve will not.
Lungs: We had a doctor mention Chronic Lung Disease this week and that really scared us. After asking lots of questions, we learned that all babies needing ventilation for an extended period of time will be classified as having Chronic Lung Disease and that basically all 25-weekers will be in this category. BUT - It's not chronic as in FOREVER. He could end up having asthma, or being prone to lung infection and he might come home on Oxygen for a few months, but he could also be fine. We won't know for awhile. What we do know now is that he ventilator setting are still pretty low (although higher than last week).
Bowels: Dylan is taking a new drug, Mucomyst, that works from the top-down to help get his bowels to move. It's been working VERY SLOWLY though. His belly is still distended, although better, but he just hasn't had big enough poos. Every time we go to the hospital, that's the first thing we ask about. For the last few days, they've just been "smears." This issue must be resolved before he can start to eat. He needs to eat (breast milk) sooner rather than later so he can receive my immunities and so his bowels become colonized with good bacteria. But for now, we wait.
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The doctor also went over all of the ventilator settings which was helpful, although he veered into Physics for a bit and although Mike understood all of it, I had flashbacks to my difficulty with "Physics for Poets" (the easy physics) in college.
We are so pleased with the medical staff. They share as much as we want and we are detail people so we like all of the information.
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My biggest issue has been learning how to deal with 8 pumping sessions each day while trying to work in hospital visits. It's so much less fun when your baby is not even eating what you are producing. : (
All those bullet points sound reassuring, even the lungs one. He sounds like he's in excellent hands with the medicial team you have.
ReplyDeleteMaybe when you get your private room, you can pump while visiting. After awhile of bfing, boobs out is the norm, and the medical staff won't think twice about you flashing them!
XOXOXO
I completely agree that boobs-out is normal and I wouldn't let that part get to you.
DeleteI'm also glad to hear his medical team is so good and so attentive.
You are such a tough mommy! Keep up the good work (and make sure to take care of you).
That is so much information to absorb. I'm not sure how you do it. Dylan sure is a little fighter!
ReplyDeleteDo you have a hands free bra? How about a car lighter adapter? I pump in the car all the time while driving. Total time saver!!!
ReplyDeleteAwesome, awesome news! That doctor sounds incredible. I think it's really "wait and see" for the Chronic Lung Disease, as the doctor said. What this meant to us with preemies was being very, very careful esp. of RSV during the winters (we lived in the NE/Midwest with cold winters) and getting them the Synagis shots (which you will here about at some point). The first two years are the worst/hardest. Lots of handwashing and limiting trips out. Not as big of an issue if you don't have older kids. And even kids that weren't preemies still get asthma, etc. We have noticed a real tendency for ours to become more croupy and to get wheezing or broncial symptoms from colds. Nothing too big, esp. considering how far they've come. You guys are always in our thoughts!!
ReplyDeleteI *so* get your frustration about timing visits with pumping schedules. I'm still trying to figure that out too. Can you pump at the bedside? That helps a little bit but it's still tough! Sounds like Dylan is doing well and a lot of these things are just to be expected as a preemie. Hang in there mommy and daddy!
ReplyDeleteNext week, when we move to private rooms, I'll be able to pump at his bedside, but right now there is just a separate pumping room.
Deletesounds like really positive updates, all around.
ReplyDeletekudos to you for keeping up with that demanding pumping routine, all that breastmilk will be great for him!
You are a strong mommy!
ReplyDeleteSo happy to hear that both you and Dylan (and Mike) are doing well.
I have been thinking about you!
Sounds as if they are taking good care of him. Looking forward to hearing about the many new milestones ahead. Let's get that other eye open :)
I am glad to hear you have such a great medical staff.
ReplyDeleteYou are one tough mommy!
Prayers for little Dylan, and you.
Do take some time to help your own body recover, too. I know the blog isn't about that but don't let the stress of all the pumping and driving and traveling back and forth to see your sweet baby Dylan prevent you from your own physical recovery.
So glad for you that Dylan is such a strong fighter!. When my triplets were in the NICU, I just stayed at the hospital from 8am until 11pm. Until they were in their own room I just used to go pump in the room they had set aside for just that reason. Makes it so much easier because then you don't have to try to schedule visits around pumping.
ReplyDeleteI pumped at the NICU, too. I made up a schedule for myself centered around all my pumping sessions (every three hours) and visiting my babies. I also figured in meals, to make a point of getting enough calories to heal and produce milk, and take naps when I could. Anyway, several of my pumping sessions were at the hospital. We either drew the curtains around the isolettes so I could pump bedside or I went to one of the family rooms they had and pumped there. I was also able to use one of the hospital's pumps so I didn't even have to lug mine with me, I just had to bring the tubes and collection bottles and stuff.
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